Journal

Is It Appropriate to Give a Spicy Gift?

Buying any gift for someone else can be tricky, but when you’re buying a gift of a more intimate nature, there are some pretty important things to consider. 

The Best of Audio Porn

If you enjoy guided sexual stimulation but the storytelling and moaning are what really get you going, there’s a kind porn just for you. Welcome to the world of audio porn! 

Navigating Sex With Chronic Pain, According to Spoonies & Sex Educators

Navigating sexuality when you’re struggling with chronic pain, chronic illness or any sort of limited mobility is not an easy (or inexpensive task), by any means. It is a difficult dance, this comp...

Bringing Fantasy Into Reality: Erotic Roleplay

Bedroom roleplay can add excitement, intimacy, and playfulness to your sex life. Whether you’re looking to spice things up, deepen an existing flavor or explore a different side of your erotic self...

Late Bloomer | Sex Ed

Welcome to the first installment of Late Bloomer.  Late Bloomer is a series of candid stories by author Audrey Em about becoming a sexual being a little later than expected but in the best way pos...

Discovering Your Inner Dominance

If the idea of being in control makes you both excited and a little anxious - you’re not alone. Many people have sexual fantasies about power, where they get aroused by dominance and submission. Th...

Scissoring: True or False?

So scissoring. What is it? Scissoring is a sexual act that involves two people, typically those who have vulvas, grinding their genitalia together in a “one leg over, one leg under” fashion. It can...

A Brief and Vaguely Mystical History of Pelvic Floor Strengthening

The practice of strengthening your pelvic floor muscles is actually believed to be very ancient, practiced in a multitude of different cultures, for a variety of different reasons. Pretty much all ...

What We Talk About When We Talk About STIs

How much of what we say when we talk about sex revolves around well-being? Probably not as much as necessary. Feeling sexy and intertwining with someone else beneath the bed sheets is only a fragme...

Commodifying Consent, or Why the Consent Condom is a Dumb Idea

Earlier this month, an Argentinian company called Tulipán launched something of a viral marketing campaign for what the internet is calling a “consent condom.” You may rightfully ask, “How does tha...