January 25, 2021

The Best Sex Toys for Humping and Grinding

When we wrote our original article on humping and grinding we quickly realized just how many people loved this way of getting off but thought that they were the only ones. It remains our most read journal post, so we thought we'd give you a part 2. We are always searching high and low for grinding toys, but perhaps because so few people talk about loving this style of masturbation, there are not nearly enough toys designed with this use in mind, but we've built a selection that we're happy with!

While rolling up a pillow or t-shirt is awesome, some of us like a little more power while we grind. These are our favorites but try humping your favorite toy and see if you discover a new way to enjoy it. We get used to laying back and using our go-to toy, but switch things up with yourself and you might be surprised. (Try some of these exciting solo sex-positions tonight!). Happy exploring!

ROMP WAVE VIBRATOR

The Romp Wave is a great lil' handheld vibrator, but it really shines as a toy for grinding! The ridges of the toy are amazing to rub and grind against, or lay on top of. The curvy ridges and pointed tip are firm, but the toy itself is super flexible and bendy.

The curved shape is perfect and ergonomic for holding in the palm of your hand during partnered sex, but as you can maybe tell, we love using it on our own! The Wave is a must if you love grinding against your toys, but the shape is perfect to use for whatever you heart desires!

KUSHI & MIDORI

Kushi & Midori are both made by Iroha and feature their trademark silky silicone and squishy interior, like a mochi with a vibrator inside. Midori is perfect for people who love something more gentle and smooth and Kushi is more textured and rumbly. If grinding against something firm makes you sore, these toys are pillowy dream.

KUSHI

MIDORI

BUMPHER

The Bumpher is a ingenious dildo accessory for the base of a strap-on dildo, but you can also use the Bumpher to create a DIY toy for grinding: just pop a bullet vibe into the Bumpher opening on the back, and voila, you have a great toy for grinding and humping!

LUST GRINDING PAD

This remote control, dual-motor pad has ribbed, contoured ridges and a deep rumbling motor. Each motor is independently controlled on the remote to make sure you find the perfect pattern and intensity. The remote control can be used by a partner up to 10 metres away, or you can use it yourself to be in full control. This massager is waterproof, so you can easily take it into the bath or shower with you. This grinding pad has been an instant hit, and for good reason!

PELLE WHIM

Whim is a non-vibrating, ultra squishy and soft silicone toy for grinding, rubbing, tribbing and caressing. This set of 2 soft, gently textured toys are meant to caress and envelop the vulva.

WE-VIBE MOXIE

While Moxie was designed to be held in your underwear with a magnet, we discovered that you can also use the magnet to hold it in place on a pillowcase. This mini vibe packs a punch and takes your pillow humping to the next level.

LE WAND PETITE

If you love POWER and you're a big wand fan, you can totally incorporate your favorite wand into your humping game. Our favorite way, is to pop it into your pillowcase (head facing up), so that you can use your pillow to angle it to just the right position. We love the Le Wand Petite for this use due to it being cordless and smaller than a classic wand.