Our Fave Toys For Partnered Play
Sex toys are incredible alone but some are equally, if not more fun, used with a partner. We've rounded up our favorites from the shop to give you the low down on how and why you may want to bring them into rotation asap. If you've never used toys with a partner before and aren't sure how to have that conversation, we've got a whole article for that.
Let the fun begin!
This small, simple toy is one of the most versatile toys to have in your bag of tricks. It's small enough to apply sweet vibrations during oral or any positions that leave a little space between you and feels incredible on anyone's parts.
Good Vibes Only: If you're on the giving end of oral, try tilting your head slightly to one side and try placing the Mini between your partner's inner thigh or belly and your cheek (or hold it against your cheek with one hand if that's easier for you). The vibes will resonate through your mouth, offering some pretty amazing sensations for your partner.
The ergonomic Yumi is small, easy to hold and feels amazing against the clitoris, nipples, perineum or anywhere else you can think of. Its shape allows it to easily glide around, leaving good vibes in its path. Run it anywhere along your or your partners body, we promise it'll feel amazing.
Not Over Til It's Over: While most people think of vibrators as toys for vulvas, people with penises tend to really enjoy the sensations as well. If your partner has a penis and enjoys their perineum being touched, try this little trick next time they're about to climax. When they're right on the edge, place the Yumi, a little firmly, against their perineum and it can stimulate their prostate externally, which can make for one heck of an orgasm!
This curvy vibrator fits perfectly in the palm of your hand. Despite it's small size, this toy is deeply rumbly, so even the lightest touch will give you chills. The small spoon-shaped indent at the tip of the Touch hugs the clit, but feel free to glide the Touch anywhere and everywhere ;)
Delicious Play: A toy that fits nicely in your palm is so versatile that you can almost give each other full-body massages with it.
Whether you're using them along with a harness or manually, dildos aren't only fun solo. If your partner has a penis of their own, a dildo may seem redundant but few are flexible enough to perform oral sex during penetration, a delightful combo!
Dil-do! : This toy is harness compatible, but also has a suction base. Try playing around with a partner while the toy is attached to the shower wall, headboard or full-length mirror and it's like having an extra person there.
This set is perfect if you've wanted to try a strap-on but aren't sure where to start. The harness is super adjustable to accommodate many shapes and sizes, and has a cute little pocket with a vibrating bullet tucked inside! The set comes with two dildos, one small and one medium size, so you and your partner can start small and stay comfortable! If you want to use a bigger dildo, there's an extra o-ring to accommodate a larger toy.
Learn the Ropes: Don't know what pegging is? Have always been curious about using a strap-on? We've got an article for just about everything! Our guides to strap-ons and pegging are a great place to start. If you want to go big, check out our guide on using larger toys. As always, we encourage you to use lots of lube!
No matter the size or material you prefer, a plug or rimmer can bring things to a brand new level with a partner. First, you need to discuss consent, interest, and boundaries but if both parties are game, there can be a lot of fun to be had. We recommend starting with a small rimmer, like the Candy Rimmer if these sensations are new to you and slowly sizing up to a toy like the Firefly Ace II. But if you're already a fan, the njoy Pure Plug, is basically like buying your partner some truly impressive jewelry.
Three's Company: If the fantasy of being in a threesome is enticing to you but you're just not there yet, try using a booty toy, especially a vibrating one, while giving or receiving oral sex and it can really help to stimulate the feelings of that fantasy. Don't forget the lube!
Just because you're far away from your partner, doesn't mean you can't get in on the fun! The Moxie is a cute little vibe that's designed to be worn inside you undies with a powerful magnet. While the Moxie can be controlled by a remote, it also connects to an app for some seriously hot long-distance fun. As with all We-Vibe toys, it has a surprisingly strong motor and comfortable, ergonomic design.
Pillow Talk: One of our favorite ways to use the Moxie is to attach it to a pillow (slip the magnet between the pillow and pillowcase, resting the Moxie on top of it) and grind against it. You can still let your partner control the motor :)